What this book excels at is encircling "slap-in-the-kisser" type situations and giving a woman tools to recognize them. For example, say you are touchy-feely and he hates being touched, your intended affection is met with revulsion. Anyone can see how hurtful such a situation is, and this book finds and tags many such cases that commonly appear in heterosexual relationships; very effectively.

There's a lot of downside though, It isn't suitable to a male reader, it does not address sex and family planning at all, nor does it address when the best relationship might be solitude or alternative. In other words its got great ammo for a limited scope of issues. It cannot stand alone as your only self-help book and absolutely must be supplemented with others.